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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I feel you! My DH is the same with the difference that he makes a lot more money than I do. He threaten to quit every few months. He has changed jobs multiple times in the last few years but things don’t get better. He is been at the current job for 3 years and I am holding my breath because this is the longest he is been in a job for years. This created a lot of stress in our marriage but things have gotten better since he has not changed job recently. He always blames everyone else.
I think that PP is spot on and this is anxiety or some type of disorder. He can’t manage stress at work and to be honest at home as well. I have suggested talking to a therapist and he didn’t take it well. And btw if I make a comment he doesn’t like he says I don’t support him! 
Anyway it is very stressful. If your husband is open to therapy you should encourage him to do it.
I am not sure there is much you can do because he will be miserable if he changes job, he will be miserable if he doesn’t but maybe at least he wouldn’t blame you for being miserable if he does what he wants to do. 
Also please make sure you list all the things you will have to cut from your budget and offload some of the house work to him. Good luck!
Ps: sorry for the typos got to go to bed[/quote]

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