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[quote=Anonymous]I'm 8:42 and 8:46

It wasn't until about 8 years into my marriage that I realized
that the problem wasn't the job duties/makeup of individual
jobs my ex husband had.  The problem was my ex husband
was unable to handle the stress of holding down any job.

He changed jobs every 12-14 months.  He always told
me the job was the problem.  Other men working for the
same employers did not have any problems and are still
working their decades later.

My ex husband always blamed each employer for the stress.

Towards the end he left two really really good employers.
He was making very good money with his last two employers and there was nothing wrong with those jobs.

The problem was my husband could not handle the
stress of any job.

What I learned from this--having a guy who is working
an average job year after year after year is preferable to
a job hopper.  The job hopping caused a lot of stress on our marriage.

I'd do a couple of sessions of couples therapy and try to get husband pointed to meds.

Signed....woman who does not believe in meds.

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