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[quote=Anonymous]I think people are asking about OP being a SAHP because most people who work know how awful some jobs can be and the toll that can take on your mental health and overall wellbeing. So when someone is completely different to their spouses concern's and only cares about $$, that comes across as maybe they don't understand the challenges of the workplace. OP says she works but it sounds like her work environment is such that she just can't relate. I am someone who thinks well-being and mental health and quality of life are a thousand times more important than status or class or luxury or wealth so I always think that open honest conversation about budget and overall well-being are good. I would never expect my spouse to stay in a job they hated. I have been in one and know how it can really be damaging and I would have a hard time being with someone who didn't care about my health or well-being. I am a woman so I don't really have to worry about being seen as $$ by my partner. [/quote]
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