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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here and its nice to know that others went through the same. And yes, I do tend to overcompensate with my own child but I am ok with that. I knew scores of kids by college who were not like me and they did ok. I think its fine to grow up at 16, 17 and 18 and there is no need to do it at 8, 9, 10...

21:15 - my kid is 6 almost 7 and its becoming a phrase I hear more often amongst parents of my kid's friends.

21:47 - agree...I don't think "mature" is a positive term for young child

21:65 "The difference is that I push them to do adult things,"  ... why do you feel the need
to push a 3 yr old to do adult things?  Do you think when they are an adult they will run out 
of years to do them???  Really, there is no need to do that.  And there is a difference between
having your kid help with household chores for fun as opposed to expecting the child to actually
take on those tasks themselves on a day to day basis.

21:58 - yes, that's very true so much energy as a child went into having to basically raise myself
that creativity and the like went out the window.

22:39 - I can relate - many movies and books that I was exposed to as a young kid were just so inapproriate.

22:45 - that's terrible, I am sorry that happened to your DH.  I was always hypervigilant about adults who wanted
to help me in anyway. [b]Sadly, my mom warned me about adults who would take advantage of kids but she didn't seem to 
realize that her actions made me all the more vulnerable to those adults.[/b]  You are right- when adults find kids where
they know parent involvment is lacking they tend to see them as easy victims.
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OP, how is this even possible?[/quote]

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