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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. We have talked about us rotating in and out for the sake of the kids. I worry a lot about how soon to be ex would respect and maintain mutual shared space. One of my concerns would be that whichever parent is in the family home with the kids has to take time away from the kids for cleaning/laundry/grocery shopping etc. I know that is real life for any parent but I hate that bc my ex decided to split, I only get to see my kids 50% of the time. I'd like that time I do get with them to be focused on them, not on cleaning and shopping or potentially reversing anything he may not have attended to while with them.[/quote] That's a real concern, OP. I wonder if it could be written out in an agreement, that if certain baseline tasks weren't done (like in a VRBO agreement) then the offending parent has to pony up for a) cleaning people b) food delivery or c) grocery costs? It would be challenging to navigate, agreed.[/quote]
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