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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How do you achieve this? Do you and spouse naturally agree on everything? Do you disagree but rarely voice your disagreement leading to no arguments?[/quote]

We do not agree on everything, but we agree on most things. When something comes up that we disagree about or I am annoyed about something, I think very carefully about whether it is worth it to me to create an argument in order to voice my disapproval. The answer is almost always no. This is not to say that DH just gets to do whatever he wants with no disapproval from me. We really just genuinely do not have a lot of points of contention in our relationship.[/quote]

“... with no disapproval from me.”  So rather than debate something you disapprove of (that is, argue), you do what?  Stop speaking to him, withhold something from him, reprimand him for making you upset, resent him, ...? What form does your overt disapproval take?  If you remain silent, how does he know what exactly you don’t agree with if you don’t give an argument?[/quote]

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