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[quote=Anonymous]1. We each have our zones. He's in charge of meals, kitchen, food. I'm in charge of laundry and clothes. Unless one of us absolutely HATES something the other is about to do/purchase/toss, we stay in our own zone. 2. We set up perimeters for events that can cause conflict. How often we see his parents, how often we h have overnight guests, how we back each other up with the kids, how much we'll spend without consulting each other ($200), etc. 3. We "fight fair." So we don't let things fester, we aren't passive-aggressive, we assume the best in each other, etc. If I think he's doing something wrong but it's really important to him and won't cause a big problem, then I just let it go. Same with him towards me. [/quote]
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