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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We really don't have anything to argue about. In the off chance that there is, we talk about. We don't let it fester.

The most common arguments between couples involve money, household chores and sex. If you can conquer those three things, everything else seems like a walk in the park. [/quote]

Agree. We don’t argue when we sit down or email about future vacations, school stuff, gifts, car to buy, etc.

The arguments arise when my spouse messes something up. It could be forgetting to tell me about a work trip, making a mess in the kitchen or breaking something.  He simply will not take responsibility, and forget an apology. He’ll deflect and make excuses so fast it is lunacy, and then the lies and cover ups start.

It used to make me angry, and concerned the kids would see that lying and deflecting is the way to go. But now I just let it go and feel sorry for him. It’s unclear why he continues to do this, but I noticed his father and brother are the exact same way. Something happens, and there is absolutely no explanation. Life is just full of constant mysteries.  I just LMAO now. [/quote]

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