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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It has all been said but two things to add. My opinion: I think saying, “no thanks I already have plans, but I appreciate the invitation” is a kind response and avoids the poster’s concern about “teaching men to respect women as men’s property” (which I think is an extreme way to view a dance invite but whatever I guess I understand it). My advice: Make sure she has alternate plans in place, or else [b]she could decline this boy and then find out her other tenative date asked someone else in the meanwhile.[/b] Spoken from experience at my own hs homecoming! [/quote] I realize this isn’t very nice, but I almost hope that happened. If someone asks, it’s rude not to give an answer right away. If I asked someone and they said, “let me think about it,” I’d move on and not wait around for them to “decide” (or make me their backup plan). I’m a woman, btw, and would totally understand a boy moving on after receiving a non-committal answer.[/quote]
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