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[quote=Anonymous]		I'd run op. Your boyfriend knows it is his ex?? (note the question marks) calling. Kids don't call, ever, not when it may make sense to do so. My kid texted me instead of calling me to ask where her ride was when she needed to get home from an after school activity. She also failed to call or text me when she was safely in the car to come home, and she's a good kid. Believe me, your boyfriend knows it isn't his kid calling despite what the phone number says, and despite what he tells you. He knows you don't know how this works yet and is taking advantage.

Second, note that he has final say on custody issues, and he calls out the boy interests like sports. Really? It just doesn't sound right to me. 
Third, he disparages his ex, to the point of talking about her public behavior, yet is ok leaving his kids with her while he goes on dates. Think about that. I'm not convinced this ex doesn't give as good as she gets. Even if #3 wasn't a factor, I wouldn't want to date a man who took advantage of my lack of ignorance on how kids use phones, or who bragged about having tie-breaking authority on things all dads probably fantasize about. Note that he probably doesn't fill out the paperwork or buy the sports equipment in a timely fashion thereby causing his ex stress both because it makes her look bad to the coaches, and because she has to listen to his beloved children ask 100 times about wether or not they can do a given sport this season.

You don't have a winner here, op. 
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