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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would not talk to their parents. I would talk to the counselor. So, you are doing the right thing. Unfortunately, it happens a lot and [b]mean girls’ parents are usually defensive and will take their side[/b], if any.

Middle school is awful. I hope your DD will make better friends soon.[/quote]

100%. And why mean behavior, rudeness, and even bullying will never go away. Parents don't follow through. Ever.[/quote]

I think a lot of people who are truly mean are also good at code switching to be normal/nice to everyone else. Their parents are incredulous to their child's other behavior and thus get somewhat defensive. Which, initially, is actually a normal reaction- it doesn't jive with anything they already know about their kid and it's natural to protect them. BUT parents need to step back and really see what's happening after that initial shock[/quote]

I'm the poster you're referring to. I couldn't agree more. I totally get the initial reaction to be defensive or defend your child. But, that is, unfortunately, where it ends most of the time. [/quote]

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