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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Be lonely. Grieve the loss. That’s not what we going on the last 3 years. You were just getting through. It’s different now.[/quote]

OP divorced the guy; she’s not mourning his death. You’re trying to solve a problem OP doesn’t have.[/quote]

Hello there, person who hasnt ever been divorced! For many people it is a legit grieving process. You have to grieve the loss of all the hopes and dreams you had for the marriage.[/quote]

Hello there, person who has apparently never buried a husband or wife. No, it’s not a law of nature that you _have_ to grieve at the end of a marriage. At least past OP’s 3 years of separation.[/quote]

I’ve buried a daughter and divorced over a 3 year separation, and a lot of conflict and contempt is directed to me as the mother. Everyone grieves everything differently. No judgment?

The most important work for any healthy relationship is self-work, but there is nothing wrong with a male friendship and specially platonic? Nothing wrong with dating as long as your 100% transparent about where you are in the process up front with dates, and you never put your child at a disadvantage. It’s tricky to navigate all of the patterns in life and a tightrope walk at times. Try not to be so hard on each other [/quote]

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