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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Be lonely. Grieve the loss. That’s not what we going on the last 3 years. You were just getting through. It’s different now.[/quote]

OP divorced the guy; she’s not mourning his death. You’re trying to solve a problem OP doesn’t have.[/quote]

Hello there, person who hasnt ever been divorced! For many people it is a legit grieving process. You have to grieve the loss of all the hopes and dreams you had for the marriage.[/quote]

Hello there, person who has apparently never buried a husband or wife. [b]No, it’s not a law of nature that you _have_ to grieve at the end of a marriage.[/b] At least past OP’s 3 years of separation.[/quote]

I guess if you're a stone-cold psychopath you won't grieve, but anyone normal will certainly grieve.[/quote]

I guess if you're addicted to drama you can keep grieving AFTER THREE YEARS HAVE PASSED.[/quote]

Separation isnt the same as the finality of divorce. It's a weird transitional time. For some people they can't start the processing until it's fully over. I was doing great by the time my separation was over and the divorce was a relief. But I can understand how someone might not feel the same way.

You seem really angry. Maybe you need to do some processing yourself.[/quote]

You're either really old and don't know how the internet works or a lunatic.[/quote]

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