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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have a question for the men talking about Forbidden Sex Acts.

Is it more disappointing/galling to you all if a woman has done Forbidden Sex Act before, did not enjoy it and will not do it again, or if a woman has never and refuses to consider doing Forbidden Sex Act with you or anyone else?[/quote]

This question gets to the point, I think. A wife who won't do FSA with anyone is less disappointing than a wife who will do FSA with others but not you. Like PP said, it's an emotional thing; not a logical thing. You can qualify it with the idea that she didn't like it -- and that satisfies the logical brain. But the emotional brain worries that she's just making an excuse -- really what's happening is that she was more attracted to the other guy(s). She married you for your resources, not because she thinks you're hot. [/quote]

I kind of agree with this, the idea of the logical vs. emotional brain.  The way I see it, there are a lot of raunchy, totally fun sexy stuff that people do when they are super turned on.  So my lizard brain would wonder if she saved the super hot stuff for when she was super turned on and I am getting the "go through the motions" stuff.

The way to guard against this is if my wife were otherwise game to try other stuff, push boundaries and show some initiation.  If I am getting a "no" to FSA AND starfish sex, I think my lizard brain is onto something.[/quote]

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