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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have a question for the men talking about Forbidden Sex Acts.

Is it more disappointing/galling to you all if a woman has done Forbidden Sex Act before, did not enjoy it and will not do it again, or if a woman has never and refuses to consider doing Forbidden Sex Act with you or anyone else?[/quote]

This question gets to the point, I think. A wife who won't do FSA with anyone is less disappointing than a wife who will do FSA with others but not you. Like PP said, it's an emotional thing; not a logical thing. You can qualify it with the idea that she didn't like it -- and that satisfies the logical brain. But the emotional brain worries that she's just making an excuse -- really what's happening is that she was more attracted to the other guy(s). She married you for your resources, not because she thinks you're hot. [/quote]

I'm the original question-asker above.

I did FSA with a former boyfriend multiple times. It wasn't my favorite but I know that many men are super excited about FSA so was willing to try it again. DH is big enough that it was too much for me, even with a lot of foreplay, wine, and lube. We did it once and I told him I was not willing to do it again. His response was essentially that my willingness to try things at all was what was important. He didn't seem to think that my attraction to former boyfriend was greater due to my willingness to do that one thing more times with former boyfriend than him. [/quote]

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