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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]First, no, my 15YO boy would not be there. Second, obviously the girls got caught and blamed the boys, saying they all just showed up uninvited and what could we do? So they threw the boys under the bus once and are ready to do it again if trouble happens -- don't let it be your kid next time.[/quote] Wow. Way to blame girls for boys getting in trouble. So, your son(s) are angels until a girl is around. Got it. You have zero knowledge of what exactly happened but you're making up a story to fit a bigger view that girls are trouble and boys are so easily led astray, poor dears. Great lesson to teach boys. [/quote] [b]NP here, I think the person overreaching here is you. This isn't a gender issue. This is a home resident vs guest issue. Get a grip[/b].[/quote] Oh, I agree, the OP's situation is about "guests" who aren't guests at all and whom the homeowner has said are not welcome. But I wasn't addressing that; I was addressing the one PP above who is the one who made this about gender--not me. Sorry you missed that. The PP says, based on nothing at all that the OP posted, that "obviously" girls were the instigators who "threw the boys under the bus" -- poor, beleaguered boys, made victims by evil girls. If that PP leaps straight to that assumption, well, I'd bet that PP has sons and thinks they can do no wrong. So, I'm not overreaching on OP's initial post because I'm not addressing it. I'm addressing that one PP's nasty little assumption. Of course the girls could have heaved patio furniture into the pool and damaged it. So could the boys. But the PP immediately blaming the girls based on nothing but the fact they ARE girls is pathetic and misogynistic. [/quote] Holy crap, you are reading way, way too much into that and totally out of context. Get a grip.[/quote]
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