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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]First, no, my 15YO boy would not be there.

Second, obviously the girls got caught and blamed the boys, saying they all just showed up uninvited and what could we do? So they threw the boys under the bus once and are ready to do it again if trouble happens -- don't let it be your kid next time.[/quote]

Wow. Way to blame girls for boys getting in trouble. So, your son(s) are angels until a girl is around. Got it.

You have zero knowledge of what exactly happened but you're making up a story to fit a bigger view that girls are trouble and boys are so easily led astray, poor dears. Great lesson to teach boys. [/quote]

First, I said nothing of the sort, and never would. Second, I'm talking about these particular girls, not all girls/all boys. There is context here; it is not a generalization. Sheesh.

Read the OP. This house has been the go-to place for unsupervised parties for a long time. There is one in our neighborhood too (boys live there, so I get that there are equal opportunity offenders). These specific girls got caught this time (after years of parties). What does any kid, girl or boy, do then? They claim innocence to mom and dad and give the stand by, "We just invited a few girls over, and word go out, and next thing we knew, beyond our control ..." Yes, that situation has happened to innocent kids before (boys and girls). In those cases the uninvited boys and girls are the problem. But that is not to the situation with these kids whose house has been the go-to unsupervised party place for years, as OP describes. That is the context of this thread. Clearly, from the Dad's text to everyone in this specific situation, these specific girls said it was "the boys fault."  That's how it goes.[/quote]

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