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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow, OP you are getting the typical "divorce cheerleader" advice here from women who don't have to live your life when all is said and done.

Back up for a moment, is he a good husband and father?  is this in character or out of it?  Any changes in the relationship lately?

Yes, it's entirely possible he has naked pictures of another woman who he isn't physical with.  I have received these a few times in my 20 year marriage - not saying it's appropriate but it's not that uncommon.

It's also possible it's not his boss, or it's his divorced friend who is sleeping with a hot woman and shared the picture.  It's also possible it's his boss and he is having a full blown affair.

Rather than spend the best years of your life turning into an amateur detective, which may or may not reveal any definitive evidence, have a heart to heart with him.  Tell him what you saw, ask for his explanation, make it clear that infidelity won't be tolerated and you would feel better if you had some transparency, i.e. access to his phone to reassure you.   This all assumes you have an otherwise good marriage and sex life.  If you don't, and are looking for a reason to split, then do it for other reasons.[/quote]

OP already asked her husband about the pics and he is denying any such pics exist... if he won't even acknowledge the pics, I'm guessing transparency isn't gonna happen. [/quote]

He’ll no transparency won’t happen until you have something more concrete and in hand. There could very well be nothing that comes from it but if there is there’s proof. You just have to go looking for it.[/quote]

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