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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Making disparaging/embarrassing/humiliating remarks about your spouse in public is the #1 predictor of divorce.  I think the research is the Gottman Institute (not sure but this is a pretty well-known correlation)[/quote]

That's a symptom of contempt, and contempt is marriage poison. [/quote]

Yes but it isn’t contempt to correct the record. If he can’t speak X at all, it is not contempt to speak up with the truth. [/quote]

It is absolutely contempt to "correct the record" in front of other people, especially about something relatively trivial.

If she didn't hold him in contempt [b]she would have saved her "truthful correction" for the ride home[/b].[/quote]

Uh, what?  You think she should have gently informed him later that he doesn't speak the language?  Are you under the impression that the DH in this scenario somehow is unaware he can't speak the language, and after she lets him know in private he'll what -- do better next time?   :lol:

This guy seems weird, and in the story it seems like the wife has had enough.  It also seems like OP thinks women who don't work are essentially worthless and the wife was not performing her duties as arm candy correctly.  I award everyone involved no points, and my god have mercy on your souls.[/quote]

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