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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]While there are clearly issues in this relationship, I do not think that it is ever okay for one spouse to scream at another after drinking, threaten self-harm, and then pretend nothing happened. THAT is something that abusers do.

It should be possible for one partner to be frustrated with certain things and express that frustration to their spouse without an angry outburst.

That you guys think this is all OP's fault is pretty terrible.[/quote]

Well she could have yelled at him first. Just because you are a woman does not mean you can not be the abuser. [/quote]

1) I'm definitely not OP.
2) I was pretty careful in my post to note say "wife" or "husband" or "woman" or "man" so any suggestion that the OP is absolved because she's a woman is ridiculous and not responsive to what I wrote.
3) I agree that OP should have made the decision to not engage with her husband after he responded poorly when she first complained, if only because I personally think that no conversation about serious life matters should occur while either party is intoxicated. However, OP's husband's behavior is also terrible. Threatened to beat his head on the wall? Screamed at her? Then pretended that nothing happened? What an immature person. OP does not sound MORE mature, but that doesn't make her husband's behavior acceptable.[/quote]

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