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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As someone who is in his shoes, I fault the guy tremendously for participating in that article, which clearly accomplishes nothing but cause his ex more pain and embarrassment.   I also believe that the guy’s decision to put his kids in a conservative Christian school and allowing them to be raised thinking the way they did was unforgivable.

Having said that, the reactions of many of the women on this thread to the article confirms my decision never, ever to come out at this point.  With each passing day one becomes more and more boxed into what was a stupid decision made years ago - while young, hopeful, and naive - but certainly was not a decision made maliciously or with any intent to hurt or mislead.

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The women are reacting to being left to parent children alone. You are not ready to accept the consequences of your actions. You chose to get married.[/quote]

And there has only been one negative response to him coming out. I am from Detroit and there is enough space, and a large enough community there (and here) for him to find a new life. Do not blame your decision to remain in the closet in a marriage on our responses. Repeat, you do not leave your kids. He could have moved away for a few months to clear his head and then move back.

Why didn't he choose to take the boys with him?[/quote]

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