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[quote=Anonymous]You seem to be focused on the wrong thing.  Instead of focusing on marriage you should wonder if you’d like a boyfriend.  The first step is a boyfriend.  Find someone you enjoy spending time with.  Step one is going on dates and meeting men.

FWIW I see the main benefit of marriage to be relative stability.  Marriage for better or worse keeps people together.  If I weren’t married I would have probably left my husband by now and later regretted it.  It’s a lot easier to breakup with a boyfriend/gf than get divorced.  If I only went the LT partner route I would probably have multiple ones throughout my life.  This is what I’m witnessing among my friends who are opposed to marriage.  They jump from relationship to relationship.  There are of course people who don’t require a legal contract to stay together, but I find it certainly helps.  It also provides financial protection, especially for the spouse who has children and/or sacrifices their career for children.

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