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[quote=Anonymous]And yes, insecure attachment was definitely the issue with my mom (I’m the pp who is able to bond with mom over the grandkids). She was not good with me as a young child (think neglect and annoyance one minute, then overly smothering the next) and this pattern lasted my entire childhood. During a lot of my childhood I withheld from her because i found her reactions to be too dicey — sometimes loving but mostly angry or negligent. I used to get yelled at for not telling her about my ear infections until they were full blown, but I was always worried that if I told her about them sooner I would waste her time by making her take me to the doctor only to not have an ear infection. That kind of stuff[/quote]
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