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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, it does you no good to ruminate on this

Getting people to agree that something was "rude" does not change anything. It does not change anything that's of any importance. It does not help your relationships. It does not make you thinner. It does not help you in any way.

Start focusing on things more important.[/quote]

I dont want to be thinner. Thanks though.[/quote]

Yeah, you do. -NP[/quote]

Not really. I mean I guess if it was easy. But I don't think a 12 -14 is super huge. I can still eat what I like. When I was slim, i didn't have nearly as much fun. It wouldn't be worth the struggle. [/quote]

If you didn't want to be thinner, his comments wouldn't bother you. I say this as a 12 myself. I eat what I like and have fun, too. But if I focus on someone else's comments about me, I have enough self-awareness to know it's really about how I feel about myself. [/quote]

You think his comment was appropriate? Is he rude? That was what I was asking.

Even if I wish I was thinner, it doesn't change the fact that he is rude and inappropriate.  Why are you trying to make me the bad guy?[/quote]

Dude, no. I know you really want excuses to focus on this more, but that's not what I'm saying.

He was rude. AS WE HAVE FREAKING ESTABLISHED. But you are giving him so much power and so much real estate in your mind when you keep thinking and talking and posting and yammering on about this. HE WAS RUDE. OKAY. MOVE ON.

Dog with a bone. Damn. Let it GO. [/quote]

Now I am trying to figure out where to go from here.

Thanks for playing. Maybe go eat something. You sound very hangry  [/quote]

What do you mean where to go from here? Like, are you going to call your sister and tell him to divorce him?

No? Oh, you're going to say "Hi, Ted" and keep it moving, as has already been established.

What you need to do is move on out this thread. Like, he was rude. M'kay? End thread. [/quote]

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