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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I regret that I didn't do it sooner.  Similarly to the other poster, my kids were VERY relieved when we broke up.  We caused the older ones damage by staying together as long as we did.[/quote]

"My kids were relieved and happy for me, and now they are thriving" is what selfish people always say when they got the divorce for their own selfish reasons, and can't admit it hurt their kids because that might make them look selfish (which they are).[/quote]

Just NO. As a child of divorced parents I am soooooo immensely grateful that my parents divorced when they did. I won’t say it was easy on me but I definitely would not have survived longer living with my parents fighting day in and day out. It was absolutely the best thing they could have done for themselves and for me. A toxic marriage is not good for anyone, kids included. It’s not selfish. I hate to hear about parents who stay together for the kids. Your kids know, they know you don’t love each other anymore, they know you aren’t good together, they know a lot more than you think they do. [/quote]

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