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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I regret that I didn't do it sooner.  Similarly to the other poster, my kids were VERY relieved when we broke up.  We caused the older ones damage by staying together as long as we did.[/quote]

"My kids were relieved and happy for me, and now they are thriving" is what selfish people always say when they got the divorce for their own selfish reasons, and can't admit it hurt their kids because that might make them look selfish (which they are).[/quote]

Healthy marriages don’t end in divorce. Yes, divorce hurts kids, but so does living in a broken-yet-together home.[/quote]

Unhealthy people. .. a marriage is not an organism... it does not have a life of its own.

It's the person or people that are unhealthy and a divorce won't fix that. [/quote]

The relationship is unhealthy, not necessarily the people in the relationship. A divorce will release them from an unhealthy dynamic.  Home should be a loving, relaxing oasis.[/quote]

There is no unhealthy relationship without at least 1 unhealthy person. A person makes the relationship unhealthy. You can actually be "out of love" and have a healthy relationship. Not all divorces are because of "unhealthy" relationships.

That is the biggest myth... a divorce will release you from your unhealthy self. No your self goes along with you and you are still unhealthy.

Either you are unhealthy or your spouse is unhealthy if you home is not loving and relaxing.  [/quote]

what a stupid, judgmental, and uninformed view of human nature.

what's your solution if you or your spouse is "unhealthy"? just say some magic words and it will be all better?  we ALL know that environment can have a huge impact on mental health.  removing yourself from an environment that is making you unhealthy is often the best move.  [/quote]

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