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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm not explaining this right.

It's not about him making a dumb mistake. We all do. It's this digging in his heals and then getting mad at me for not going along with his "explanation" that it's really what he said it was. That's the issue. He's mad at ME for not drinking the [kool-aid] milk, when as I said, I don't care if I even have the damn milk. It "became an issue" when he saw me put my cereal away, and then got mad at me. Yelled at me for not eating what he claims to be soy milk.

Seriously, you all would be OK with that? Getting yelled at over breakfast when you just tried to have a damn bowl of cereal? 
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I understand, OP.  My DH is the same way.  He gets mad and yells about things that are very minor, are not my fault at all, or are actually his fault.

I recently realized that it’s a two way street and I don’t have to do my part if it.  Typically, he would get mad, then I would get hurt, then I would spend an hour explaining why he shouldn’t have been mad about that, then he would apologize, and I would get over it.

Now, I just drop the rope.  He gets mad about something stupid, and I just go on with my day.  It isn’t about me.  [/quote]

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