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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A couple of thoughts.  Don't walk up to him and start talking.  Some people need time to disengage from their thoughts.

Also, why do you need affirmation of every plan?  Just go to the park.  Be more independent and you may get more attention.[/quote]

Agreed.  I would probably zone out too if DH had to involve me in every single decision he made.  It would be exhausting and annoying. [/quote]

Op here. We have a baby and a toddler. I’m not going to just go and leave for the park. That’s rude. Similarly, I would expect if DH is going to leave the house with one of our children that he would talk to me about it. This is not a lack of independence, it’s basic respect.[/quote]

I didn't suggest leaving the house without telling him.  "We're going to the park.  Bye!"  Don't wait for acknowledgement, don't repeat.  You can also text him.[/quote]

Op here. Again we have a baby and toddler. I’m not going to just walk out the door with one of our children and send him a text. I need to know he’s on board to handle the baby while I take the toddler if he’s going to stay home. Or if they want to come with us, we will probably just get dinner out since it was so close to dinner time, etc. [/quote]

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