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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How new is the  boyfriend and why is she already living with him? If she's only been divorced for a year and is already living with some new guy, a judge is (probably rightly) going to seriously question her judgment[/quote]

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This case is very different from mine, with the pot smoking and being late, etc., so her husband may have a case. But, I thought I should tell my story, because I too thought one year was moving way to fast.

I didn't like that my ex was having his new GF over, she was staying the night, she was watching my DC when he had to work late. Well, long story short, I learned that he has every right to move on with his life, and according to the judge, she felt I was filing an order out of jealously and not what was in the best interest of my child. These days, judges will lean towards the child having a relationship with both parents, and that is the most important thing to remember. Unless this new person can be proven to be a danger to your child, then you have no case and no right to interfere with his decisions. He asked for 50/50 and she granted it. I took a step back and realized I was being bitter. Now, I am grateful for this woman because she is good to my daughter and my daughter really likes having a bonus mom. I just recommend that those going through a divorce, always remember the kids come first. [/quote]

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