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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Look OP, you either hurt your inlaws feelings a bit by being upfront before they die.  OR you lie to them and get rid of the collection after they die.  That's pretty much your choices.

The 3rd choice, accepting, maintaining, and GROWING, an insane collection of books that no one even uses or looks at is completely out of the question.

I'd start letting your DH know your feelings now.  I can't believe you'd even consider buying a huge house just to have a home for books you don't even want.[/quote]

Thank you for your reply, i am OP, I agree with you, it's silly to think that I could build a big house to display the books.  I am just a bit scared to bring up this topic to DH or my in-laws.  I think they take great pride in their family tradition, and their library is a symbol of knowledge.

I guess I can start talking to my husband about it, then seek an opportunity to discuss it with his parents.  I just hate to be the "bad guy" who is bringing this up, as if I am ruining their family tradition.  UGH, maybe I'm overthinking this.

And also, they have a lot of "stuff" beside books.  How to keep those "stuff" is another topic.  [/quote]

Honestly I would avoid talking about it as much as possible. The time to deal with it is a) if they want to have an explicit conversation as they organize their estate or b) when they're gone. [/quote]

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