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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, maybe what you are really saying is that you want a chance to "play the field" with multiple guys at your option, but maybe have one guy as your "old reliable" "go to guy" when not much else is happening.  So 1/2 off the time is your "regular" and the other half you are out slutting around, or trying to.

That's O.K. you do you.

However, no quality, desirable man with any options is going to put up with that sort of treatment.

If you make it clear that you're not interested in getting serious or monogamous, sure, you'll get plenty of guys who just want to you, but you're crazy if you have any expectations that it's you who will get to pick and choose whether, if, when, and on what terms it's anything but that.[/quote]

+1. The larger point is 100% accurate. Although I don’t think half time when you’re a mother/father really means half time for strange. I think that’s something men tend to do more than women actually. In OP’s case, it really can mean that is all the time you can invest for the new structure of your life, and want to share that with one person, without complication. Every other week. And introducing children creates a completely different dynamic so someone acceptable of that boundary is something to consider. Concluding slutty tendencies for that choice is pretty chauvinistic and harsh.[/quote]

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