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Reply to "anyone drop the rope with their spouse?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Not wrong. It’s dishonest to marry a big earner, reap the benefits and then bail out of the agreement in the middle, causing tremendous family turmoil. At least wait until the kids are grown - it’s the respectable thing to do.[/quote] Again, read the OP. It sounds like the balance of family life was discussed and OP was given the impression that the work intensity would die down, and it didn't. Perhaps she should have believed what she was seeing, rather than what he was saying. But for the love of God, drop the obsession with insisting that women all marry for "big money". Most of us don't want to partner with wealthy, uninvolved men. Including OP.[/quote] It was dishonest of her to believe that and I’m sure that she knew in the back of her mind that that wasn’t true. Unless he quits his job for a 9-5 government job he’s apparently going to need help to be involved much with the family. And I doubt that she would be happy with him being a GS-13 in the govt but she could have that discussion with him. You hear women nonstop talk about marrying for money. If you do that you don’t ‘drop the rope’ mid marriage and kids. [/quote]
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