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[quote=Anonymous]Several people here have suggested OP got into this emotional mess because she was trying to escape her life, is bogged down in the drudgery of being a parent, etc. But what if you were truly happy in your life prior to meeting someone you started an affair with? That was my situation. I was happy at home. No big complaints about my marriage. I went back to work full time when the kids started school and bam! Met him. Both of us married. He is 10 years older and married 20 years. It too a few months to finally admit our feelings. We stopped getting physical early on. It would just get uglier and more painful. We agree we would have married if we had met years ago. We soon became close friends. We have seen the best and worst of each other. This is just the way it has to be. We can make very strong connections with people. It happens. And it can be wonderful yet painful. We are human. But if you are happily married with kids you have to come to terms with the fact that you owe your family more than you owe this other person. [/quote]

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