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Is he ok with picking up the slack while you have an equal amount of fun time?

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In theory yes. In reality, he doesn’t last one hour with the DCs without needing me to come home or makes some excuse why he can’t be home.[/quote]

You love being a doormat/martyr who needs to be "needed," don't you? Wow.

I'm headed to Florida at the end of the month with my college girlfriends. If the phone rang on the way to the airport because DH "needed" me, I'd laugh gleefully, hang up, and proceed with my plans.

Don't want to be treated like a doormat? Don't lie down and allow yourself to be walked all over.

Don't ask, tell. TELL him you booked a spa weekend the second week of February. Give him a rough overview of anything big happening that weekend (dance class at 10:30 on Saturday, dance bag is at the top of DD1's closet; Jason's birthday party is at 11 on Sunday morning at Rollie Pollies; don't forget that Caleb has to wear socks in order to play, wrapped gift is on the top shelf of my closet), then GO. [/quote]

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