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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You have to stop being scared of his reactions — if he wants to act like an a$$, that’s on him; don’t tip-toe around him and avoid stating how you feel. Stand up for yourself and stop tolerating his behavior.

[b]PP who finally left the room after your DH treated you so poorly for years — what kept you from doing that earlier? Why did it take years to draw that boundary about basic respect? Why was it “huge” to assert yourself and leave the room?[/b][/quote]

Same reason as to why most people put up with this sort of low-key yet insidious abuse: it is very much like the environment I was raised in. I've battled depression and anxiety for decades. I'm terrified of people being mad at me. Basically, I've been beaten down, kept down, and yet desperate to please the people who do that to me, for most of my life.

Yes, I'm in therapy. Fairly new to it. I only recently realized how dysfunctional it all is. I'm working on a lot of things.[/quote]

Thank you for your honest response. I’m glad for you and sending you virtual support.[/quote]

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