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[quote=Anonymous]My friend's daughter left home at 16. Her father (my friend's husband) is a narcissistic asshole and very controlling in a way he thinks is funny. He isn't angry / aggressive at all but is emotionally abusive in his 'jokes' and how he talks to others.

My friend's daughter stayed home to 'work' while the family were out for the day. They came home to find she had cleaned out her belongings and left them a letter.

The letter basically said she was leaving because of dad. That she had an eating disorder and depression and since he mocked those things she could never get better at home. She also realized that it was home that led to the development of both those things as she fought for control and felt helpless and that she had started to become suicidal and realized she had to get out. She said she never intended to see or speak to her father again abut that she wanted to maintain contact with my friend and her siblings as long as they never told her father where she was or any information about her. She also said in the letter that P.S mom - he treats you just as bad, I don't know why you take it but I am not going to live like that.

It's been two years and true to her word, she has not seen or spoken to her father and she did not come home despite his demands that she do so immediately. He initially forbade my friend or the other kids from seeing her. My friend did secretly see her a number of times. One of the best things to come out of it is that watching her daughter has empowered my friend to actually stand up to him a little more. She now openly sees her daughter and took her daughter and other kids away for the Christmas holidays, leaving dad at home and against his wishes.

Her daughter is happy and healthy and in therapy. Dad controls all money and he has refused to pay for anything for her so she is taking a couple courses at community college and working full time. My friend sees her often and the siblings do as well. The next younger sibling is now 16 and is threatening to do the same and move in with her sister. My friend still sticks by her husband.[/quote]

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