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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My girlfriend of six months says she wants to get married. I’m not there yet. We are both in our early 30’s. I love her and she’s perfect for me. I don’t want to lose her, but I’m not ready to make that commitment. [/quote]

When girlfriend says she wants to get married, does she mean get engaged to you right now at six months of dating?   Or was it more that she sees the relationship headed towards marriage and wants to make sure you are heading in the same direction?  When you say you don’t want to lose her but not ready to make that commitment do you mean you see yourself marrying her or better yet the description the previous poster said of growing old together  but need more time to be sure?  Or are you saying you aren’t ready for marriage?

If you are fairly certain this is someone you could see growing old with and you just need more time (maybe another six months) to be sure, discuss that. If having an engagement ring at six months is a dealbreaker for her, then ultimately she isn’t for you.  I’m indecisive and hate making snap decisions so having someone propose after six months would not be a good match for me.  On the other hand, I also know I wouldn’t be a good match for someone that takes 5 years to decide.  I’d either feel like they weren’t sure about me or had to have everything on their terms.  [/quote]

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