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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We don't have a will. My DH is an attorney. We can't agree on many things regarding the kids. So we don't have one. It's bad, but I will not sign a will if I don't agree with it and neither will he. We are in complete disagreement.

We don't do vacations. I will not go anywhere with him without kids in case something happens and we don't have a will. Can't risk both of us dying at the same time.[/quote]

You do realize that you each get your own will?  You can write your will any way you want. You can set up trusts for your kids that will bypass your husband's will.  A good lawyer can help you figure this out.

FWIW, my parents were killed in a car accident that happened a block from their house.  The risk is low, but not taking vacations doesn't solve your problem.  [/quote]

Yes, I am aware we can each have our own will. That seems pretty pointless though because if something happens to one of us, the other will get the kids and everything.
If something happens to both of us...that is the problem.

And about what you wrote...I am sorry about your parents. I am never in the same car with my husband without the kids. Not ever. No vacations. No date nights. We are never alone together in a position for something to happen.[/quote]

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