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[quote=Anonymous]Some states have no-fault laws and that gets exploited by unscrupulous people. OP, I do not doubt that your STBX is a horrible person and you are reeling with the feeling that she has been rewarded at your expense by doing terrible things to you and your family.

How can you put things behind you? Especially when you have to pay maintainence and child-support, lost full custody of children, have to give a share of your future earnings, had to give 50% of your assets, have to still pay the burden of her CC debts and bad credit, she got the house, you cannot leave the state, she messed up the kids, she made you poor and she cheated and is flaunting her lovers?  In every single way it seems she did better than you?

How do you live when she has done so much harm to you and made out like a bandit?  
- The first thing to realize is that she is a toxic partner to you and you do not want to be her DH for the rest of your life. So the divorce is a win for you for not being associated with her. 
- Do not get into any self-destructive life style yourself to cope with the aftermath - no drinking, smoking, taking drugs, gambling or prostitutes. This is entirely in your hands. If you do then she is winning even more.
- You do whatever you have to do to give your children a stable and loving home, by also being a good example to them, when they are with you and until they are emancipated. Do it like a duty and a job. 
- You give her what the court has decreed because she also has custody (partial or full) and your kids are with her. You do not want to shit on your kids lives, even if they are taking her side, and provide for them until they are emancipated. 
- You need to take care of your health, so hit the gym. 
- You also need to take care of your career, so get some professional accreditation, start a business, go to school and become even more successful than you were. 
- You will find love and you are still able to have another family in the future. You are not driven by your biological clock like women are. If you become healthier and you can amass wealth again...you are in the market again, unlike her.

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