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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]After showing up at the wrong place at the wrong time on the wrong day multiple times she will take over all family planning chores and he will claim she is controlling. She will do 75%, he will do 25% but in his mind it will be 50/50.[/quote] Yeah, it will be 75/25 after she deletes all credit for anything he does, and gives herself double credit for what she does (plus triple credit for all the made-up bullshit like "emotional labor").[/quote] It will be 75% when he thinks moving the clothes from the washer to the dryer is = to folding and putting it away. It will be 75% when he thinks showing up to the school play is = to making the costume for the play Men's math is historically bad. [/quote] +1. There's a SAHD in a SAHP group I'm in, and even without working he can't handle running a household. His wife had to hire a nanny to take care of the kids with him. [/quote] Jeez, that's pathetic. I'm a DH and what I accomplish in one hour, it would take multiple hours for my DW. And I do all the cooking (and cleanup). Yes, there are many Dads out there like me because I know them.[/quote] Raises hand! my DH is like you. He is so much faster at everything that I am (and he works). Like physically faster and more efficient. I give him all the credit in the world. he does not cook ( I enjoy cooking!), but he does a ton of other stuff and I'm amazed at all that he can accomplish. The other day I ran out for an hour with the kids to buy winter coats and I got home and the entire house was straightened from top to bottom, the fridge cleaned out, and a load of laundry going. It was great! We ended up sitting on the sofa and all watching our show (we watch Eureka as a family). Because neither of us are lazy, our lives are pretty relaxed and we have lots of time as a family.[/quote]
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