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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here: [b]My sister has said our stepdad didn't touch her but he looked at her and made her feel uncomfortable. Of course he looked at us. [/b]He also helped us with homework, sports, etc. She won't help care for my mom but I really think it's her selfishness. She has a very busy social and career life. No, I don't ask my mom to pay me for going to see about her. Maybe I should but that seems really mercenary. I consider it part of my family responsibility. By the same token my sister's neglect doubles the amount I need to do so I don't think she's entitled to half.[/quote] I'm disturbed you're splitting this hair between looking and touching. Your stepfather behaved toward your sister in a way that made her feel uncomfortable and unsafe in her own home, and that alone is terrible. I'm also disturbed that you don't seem to have enough of a sense of boundaries and proper conduct toward children to not be disturbed that your stepfather was eyeing you and your sister in a sexual way.[/quote]
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