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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]To get your DH to agree you will likely need quite a lot of leverage. LIke a huge CS ruling from the courts. You can offer to take less if you move to a lower COL area. Short of leverage, I do no see him agreeing to this at all. If he didn't while married, he will not when divorced. You really should make the most of what you have here and like others have said, get as much custody as possible. Just because you have no cards right now, play the long game. The long game always wins. KEep notes of every time he is late picking them up, cancels, doesn't pay for what he should etc. etc etc. Down the road that will help your case to move. [/quote] I’m the PP who knew women who won ability to relocate. Agree. Play the long game! Get maximum custody time. If the old home town is within driving distance move closer to it. Even if 20 minutes closer. Start going every weekend to develop friends. Get some leverage over the ex. Etc. [/quote]
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