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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He's 29, FFS.  If those things were the definition of loser, 90% of guys would be losers.

And this one has a job! And is decently paid! And doesn't live in his parents' basement!

Not a loser, OP.  Maybe immature, but not a loser.  [/quote]

Wow. Since when did the bar drop so low that women should now be impressed with men who are employed? This is so sad. Glad my own (much higher) standards reflect my self-worth.[/quote]

The question is not if you should be impressed.  The question is "what makes a guy a loser?"

Hope your much higher standards can appropriately focus on finding someone who treats you well. [/quote]

Yes, generally "high" relationship standards are built on the very basic assumption that you're being "treated well"...

Personally, I find a guy is a loser if he: 
- Can't carry a conversation/ doesn't follow current events
- Doesn't travel/ have a passport
- Has no books at his apartment
- Doesn't own his own tux by 30-35 yrs old
- Doesn't invest[/quote]

Doesn't own his own tux by 30-35 years old.  Lolz.  OK, lady.  Hope you find a good one who doesn't mind the stick in your rectum.  [/quote]

I mean, yeah, that's obviously the least important thing/ non-thing. It was an interesting exercise trying to write out how I'd actually define re: "loser," and I think the others are actually pretty spot on (for me, this is obviously highly individualistic).

I think the tux thing was just on my mind because I went to a charity event last weekend with some guy friends and was impressed that they all had theirs ready to go. But it's totally possible they rented. Doesn't matter; but the others I'll stand by. [/quote]

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