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[quote=Anonymous]If you can get a FT job and afford a nanny, do it. I'd also talk to a lawyer and figure out how to keep some of your finances for yourself in the event of divorce. I wouldn't NOT work in the hopes of or anticipation of alimony. And stop doing anything for him - no laundry, no cooking, zip. Carve out your own life with the kids even if you are living together. Maybe he'll notice and step up, but maybe not. On the school, frankly I'd tell him he has to volunteer 50% of the hours and then stick to it when they call. And direct all the sick calls to him, etc. Be a bitch and force the issue. He sounds like a complete ass - make some $ and get the heck out.[/quote]
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