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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ive spent hours and hours, months and months, years and years researching this topic.  But you know what? Adoption is the ONLY way I can mother. I had 7 rounds of IVFs only to have one 15 weeks miscarriage and one 29 weeks stillbirth. This is literally my only avenue left and damnit Im going to take it and pray for the best. Im going to be informed and try my hardest. Im going to listen and acknowledge their struggles but Im going to do it and Im not going to feel like Im humane trafficking an innocent baby. Im a good person who wants to be a mom and Im doing my best. And I will love my children as hard as you love yours. [/quote]

Im happy for you, PP! Your future sons and/or daughters will be lucky to have you![/quote]

+1  A good friend of my son is an adoptee.  He's actually the product of an open adoption, the bio parents had 3 kids already and couldn't care for another.  He's a happy kid, and there's a lot of love in both the adoptive family and the bio family and over time, it seems to have spread across the two families.   Adoption enables parents to have the kids they're able/willing to parent.  Comparing it to human trafficking is simply offensive.[/quote]

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