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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I get grumpy as a parent when I need a break.  OP, if your DH has ADHD, he probably doesn't have the executive functioning skills to figure out how to get himself a regular break.  You may need to help him.  What did he do to unwind before kids?  When does he seem happiest?  When does he connect with the kids?  With you?

Is the morning slog the worst?  If so, get a nanny or au pair to help with mornings and send him to the gym / to get coffee / to work early / chilling in bed / to read the news.  Hiring help is so much cheaper than a divorce.  [/quote]

What is your job OP and DHs job & commutes?[/quote]

Honestly, our jobs are busy but could be a lot worse (no big-law, etc.).  Both are Feds.  His commute is about 30 minutes and mine is an hour.  He has to be to work by 6:00 (but gets home early) so I do drop-off and he handles pick-up.  I telework 2-3 days a week so am around those days to help with the evening routine.[/quote]Have you tried giving him a night off every week?  Or one weekend month? [/quote]

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