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Reply to "Is it abuse to be pressured into working stressful higher paying jobs"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why wouldn't you want the best paying job possible for your family? [/quote] Well, the best paying job I could get right now would pay about $5-600k, but would require 50% travel and routinely working 70-hour weeks. I have decided to stay at my $3-400k job that requires only 20% travel and 50-hour weeks. Do you really think the better paying job would be better for my family? My kids are 2 and 4.[/quote] OK that's a huge difference than someone taking the easy 50k job vs hustling for the 100k job. In your case, 3-400k should be enough to support a family.[/quote] You would think, but for a while my spouse was trying to nudge me into the higher-paying job. It was annoying AF, and caused resentment and distrust, but to answer the OP's question, no, it was not abuse. And, I am a woman, FWIW. Also, we have no idea whether the OP is talking about the difference between a $50k/$100k job or a $300k/$600k job.[/quote]
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