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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This has to be a troll thread.[/quote]

I wish I were a troll. This is something I'm really struggling with.[/quote]

What you are really struggling with is your own feelings of not having the financial resources to make sure you kid is a sports star and that it is likely that since you don’t have those financial resources your DS will not realize a career in the sport.

At 13, you don’t know if the career  will pan out and it’s really going to be ok to let go of that dream. If your DS is that talented, someone will step in to guide you on how to get him to the next level and help you get the financial support to do it. If that’s not happening, your DS is talented just like thousands of other local kids.

And your other kid? He wants to work so by the time he is 18 he has enough to say “See ya!” And walk out the door and not look back. You treat him like  like the ball and chain you are forced to tote around that keeps you from devoting more time and resources to your star child.

In a normal conversational tone, ask your other kid if you think the situation as is fair to him and then listen to his answer and don’t answer with “Thats not true! Or you don’t understand or it’s different for other DS or he is so talented that he has to do this sport[/quote]

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