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[quote=Anonymous]Yikes. Pretend this was your sister or friend or daughter you were advising. Would you advise them to slink around waiting / being the side piece for TEN years (...with no guarantee that it will even pan out then)? No. You're so caught up in the rush of it now that you're having all these irrational thoughts and feelings about how you can't live without him - once you remove yourself fully from the situation and some time passes you will start to see rationally again. You don't want to hear it, but he's playing you for a fool. If he really, actually loved you and wanted to be with you.....he would. What you do now is you walk away. You tell him I can't and won't put my life on hold, call me when you're single. Then follow through (which is, of course, the hard part). But if you don't want to waste the rest of your "youth" and cause yourself YEARS of pain and regret...you have to do it [/quote]
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