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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I hope this doesn't come across as condescending, but FYI, don't confuse Al-Anon with Alcoholics Anonymous (AA). You absolutely need to get to an Al-Anon group. It's an organization for family members of alcoholics--not alcoholics themselves (that's who AA is for). At Al-Anon you will meet people who have been exactly where you are right now and who can help you see much more clearly than we can by posting online in a faceless forum. Search online and you will find local group meetings near you. Get a sitter or do whatever you must to get to a meeting. And sadly, you must do the same regarding a lawyer. if you feel overwhelmed, look up your nearest "women's center"-- these places help women get started navigating things like locating an attorney and planning to move out etc.

I am concerned that you seem not to see how dire the situation is in your home. He needs to move out and you need a very experienced lawyer and a lot of support. Tell your family and close friends what is going on--do not try to go it alone. Document EVERYTHING.  [/quote]

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